Well, it was a nice run. It’s been probably over a month, and I waited on you to uh kinda call me up when it was convenient for you, as you usually do. But, I gave in. You called me up over a month ago via Facebook chat and you told me you needed help with your phone. I told you I’d do anything for you and was very cautious with how I replied. I had the illusion of control, back then. What I mean by that is, I could actually talk with confidence my mind was working eh. We met in front of the gas station and things were awkward but a good kind of awkward a flirty kind of awkward, if there was one. I held off I didn’t say anything… too “me” I didn’t want to rush into things. But, you saw that I looked different maybe noticed I lost a little weight the outfit I chose fit my body well, I felt good I felt and looked good and I could talk only I couldn’t at that moment. We were at my house desperately trying to figure out how to reset your phone, I think I touched your shoulder and waist and head?
I don’t know, you didn’t seem like much of anything. I remember some other things happened we had our back and forth that felt like we had lost it, we had a back and forth some sort of styled dialogue exchanged only between us, which made me feel powerful that there is an “us” but it’s an implied “us” a relationship but not a relationship not a romantic relationship but something beyond best friends, and we get that we’ve agreed to that only we haven’t. I don’t remember how or what it was the exchange and the lack of impulse control due to the low tolerance of certain stimulants I was on, I sat on your lap and said something along the lines of “if you want me to get off, you’ll get out of my seat” and your reply was “I’m fine.” I noticed that’s when I fucking noticed it.
CALLING OUT AND CRITICIZING SOMEONE WHEN THEY DO AND SAY PROBLEMATIC THINGS IS NOT ‘BEING A HATER’. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SPREADING HATRED OR ANGER.
IT’S ABOUT FUCKING POINTING OUT WHEN SOMEONE IS BEING PROBLEMATIC AND HARMFUL WITH THEIR WORDS AND ACTIONS.
STOP GETTING PISSED OFF WHENEVER SOMEONE CALLS OUT ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE CELEBRITIES ON HERE, AND THEN CLAIM THAT TUMBLR IS FULL OF HATE.
WE’RE NOT. WE’RE ANGRY BECAUSE YOU THINK IT’S OKAY FOR PEOPLE TO SAY BIPHOBIC, TRANSPHOBIC, RACIST, SEXIST, AND FATPHOBIC THINGS JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE ‘QUIRKY’ AND FAMOUS.
SIT THE FUCK DOWN AND LEARN THAT IT’S OKAY TO CRITICIZE SOMEBODY YOU LIKE WHEN THEY DO SHITTY THINGS.
when you flirt with someone of the same gender and they think you’re just a really sweet, straight person.
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"bisexuals are just greedy"
then why cant straight ppl be “”“just friends”“” with ppl of another gender?
why can i list 100 books/movies/franchises with love triangles where some straight person is tryin to choose between two love interests and
most importantly: why when ppl come out as bi/pan do straight ppl ask them to have a threesome who’s really greedy here
One of the most harmful notions is the idea that most bigots are just ignorant or misguided
This is false
Bigots are bigots because they were socialized to be bigots, because it is easier to be a bigot than to confront that bigotry, and because they benefit from being bigots
There are a number…