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teased-n-denied:

Girls can wear jeans and cut their hair short, wear shirts and boots. ‘Cause it’s OK to be a boy. But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading. ‘Cause you think that being a girl is degrading. But secretly, you’d love to know what it’s like… Wouldn’t you? What it feels like for a girl.

— Charlotte Gainsbourg

A company in Australia by the name of HommeMystere started making lingerie for men in April of 2013. In the beginning, they received a lot of negative publicity, mostly from women fearing their boyfriends or husbands would start wearing lingerie. So much for femininism… Now, they have consistently been making a small fortune and have become quite popular in the fashion capitals of the world. So far:

  • They have made two appearances at the International Lingerie Show in Las Vegas.
  • They have gone public in the United States, France, Sweden, and Japan.
  • They have sold out of four lines of their clothing.
  • And they have reached one million veiws on their YouTube channel.

What is more, because they do not focus on the gay community, they haven’t put any barriers up against straight men who happen to make up the majority of their orders. If that is not success, I do not know what is. Cheers, HommeMystere.

This is pretty solidly aimed at cis men, but could be a resource for transfeminine people as well.

I disagree with the notion it’s aimed at cis men.

I gave in.

Well, it was a nice run. It’s been probably over a month, and I waited on you to uh kinda call me up when it was convenient for you, as you usually do. But, I gave in. You called me up over a month ago via Facebook chat and you told me you needed help with your phone. I told you I’d do anything for you and was very cautious with how I replied. I had the illusion of control, back then. What I mean by that is, I could actually talk with confidence my mind was working eh. We met in front of the gas station and things were awkward but a good kind of awkward a flirty kind of awkward, if there was one. I held off I didn’t say anything… too “me” I didn’t want to rush into things. But, you saw that I looked different maybe noticed I lost a little weight the outfit I chose fit my body well, I felt good I felt and looked good and I could talk only I couldn’t at that moment. We were at my house desperately trying to figure out how to reset your phone, I think I touched your shoulder and waist and head?

I don’t know, you didn’t seem like much of anything. I remember some other things happened we had our back and forth that felt like we had lost it, we had a back and forth some sort of styled dialogue exchanged only between us, which made me feel powerful that there is an “us” but it’s an implied “us” a relationship but not a relationship not a romantic relationship but something  beyond best friends, and we get that we’ve agreed to that only we haven’t. I don’t remember how or what it was the exchange and the lack of impulse control due to the low tolerance of certain stimulants I was on, I sat on your lap and said something along the lines of “if you want me to get off, you’ll get out of my seat” and your reply was “I’m fine.” I noticed that’s when I fucking noticed it.

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opinionatedlez:

CALLING OUT AND CRITICIZING SOMEONE WHEN THEY DO AND SAY PROBLEMATIC THINGS IS NOT ‘BEING A HATER’. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SPREADING HATRED OR ANGER. 

IT’S ABOUT FUCKING POINTING OUT WHEN SOMEONE IS BEING PROBLEMATIC AND HARMFUL WITH THEIR WORDS AND ACTIONS. 

STOP GETTING PISSED OFF WHENEVER SOMEONE CALLS OUT ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE CELEBRITIES ON HERE, AND THEN CLAIM THAT TUMBLR IS FULL OF HATE. 

WE’RE NOT. WE’RE ANGRY BECAUSE YOU THINK IT’S OKAY FOR PEOPLE TO SAY BIPHOBIC, TRANSPHOBIC, RACIST, SEXIST, AND FATPHOBIC THINGS JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE ‘QUIRKY’ AND FAMOUS. 

SIT THE FUCK DOWN AND LEARN THAT IT’S OKAY TO CRITICIZE SOMEBODY YOU LIKE WHEN THEY DO SHITTY THINGS.

(via bi-privilege)

That awkward bi moment

thatawkwardbimoment:

when you flirt with someone of the same gender and they think you’re just a really sweet, straight person.

(submitted by Anon)

sir-not-appearing-in-this-blog:

"bisexuals are just greedy"

then why cant straight ppl be “”“just friends”“” with ppl of another gender?

why can i list 100 books/movies/franchises with love triangles where some straight person is tryin to choose between two love interests and

most importantly: why when ppl come out as bi/pan do straight ppl ask them to have a threesome who’s really greedy here

(via the-curious-bisexual)

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